Natalie Vartanian On Owning Her Sexuality and Exploring Polyamory

Today I welcome a podcast colleague, friend, relationship advisor/coach and personal tarot interpreter Natalie Vartanian. After appearing on Natalie’s new podcast Taboo and Turn On, I wanted to return the favor and feature her as a guest on NOL. We threw around some possible topics to discuss, and we decided on a hot one for Natalie, i.e. owning your sexuality and giving yourself the freedom to explore it. Personally, exploring her sexuality has led her to polyamory, which she explains in the show.

We discuss what it means to own your sexuality, some myths associated with expressing it (especially as a woman), why polyamory is good for some people but not for others, and a lot more.

Natalie is a certified life coach, relationship expert, business strategist, writer, and speaker/teacher. Her mission is to inspire people to dream big and take the risks to have it all and live a turned on life. She has worked with women from across 5 continents to help them get the sex lives and the relationships they want, in addition to connecting to their passion work in the world and building business that make a difference in a way that feels fun, easy, and alive. Her work has been featured in elephant journal, YourTango, and Good Men Project. She is the host of the podcast, Taboo and Turn On, and previously co-hosted Sex the Podcast. Natalie is working on self publishing her first book about her sexual escapades and revolutions, slated to come out early 2018. You can get on the waiting list for her book’s release by going to www.sexmoneygodbook.com.

To find out more about Natalie, go to www.thisturnedonlife.com.

Natalie’s Podcast: www.tabooandturnon.com

Book Waiting List: www.sexmoneygodbook.com

Instagram: www.instagram.com/thisturnedonlife

Facebook: www.facebook.com/thisturnedonlife

HG Tudor, Self-Described Narcissistic Psychopath, Shares Powerful Tips On Spotting and Dealing With His Kind

In the past, I’ve covered the topic of narcissism with psychologists or narc survivors, i.e. empaths or victims, however this episode shares extremely powerful information from the perspective of a highly self-aware narcissistic psychopath himself.

His pseudonym is HG Tudor, and he writes extensively about his situation and mindset to enable people to understand how he and his kind think, behave and operate. Through this, he dispels myths about his kind, unlocks many of the secrets, and enables readers or listeners to understand, counter and escape the clutches of their personal narcissists.

He conveys this unique perspective through ‘Knowing the Narcissist’, a blog which has attracted 5.6 million hits in under two years, and through similar platforms, including Facebook and YouTube. HG also has an extensive catalogue of books which address varying aspects of the narcissistic dynamic. HG’s desire is to weaponize empaths on a global scale, and he’s already helped thousands and thousands become empowered with information you can’t get anywhere else.

Please visit his blog at www.narcsite.com, his YouTube channel ‘Knowing the Narcissist’ and his collection of books on Amazon.

We discuss the varying levels of narcissism and the categories, the sources of fuel they seek, the typical pattern of a narcissistic relationship, how narcissists are created, why they target empaths, why empaths continuously get sucked back into a relationship with a narcissist, how narcissism sometimes plays out between siblings, whether or not a narcissist can change, and much, much more.

I encourage you to find a quiet spot to really listen and focus on what HG shares. There is a TON of very useful information that you won’t want to miss. This episode will help you with family, friends, work colleagues and your romantic relationships.  If you need additional assistance, I encourage you to consult with HG.

Enjoy.

Toniwo, Outspoken Infidelity Analyst and Author, Hilarously Discusses Sidepieces

Today’s NOL guest is Toniwo, an infidelity analyst and author specializing in complex relationship issues.  She’s written the books THAT’S WHAT YOU GET FOR RUNNING WITH SCISSORS and DISCORDIA, and her latest release is THE SIDEPIECE HANDBOOK, which we focus on in this episode.  

Toniwo takes a different angle than most infidelity experts, as she refuses to allow the cheating culprits to play the victim.  Instead, she makes them fully of the consequences of their actions, and she does this in a fun, sarcastic and openly opinionated fashion that’s cultivated her a mass following, and generates controversial debates wherever she goes.  

Toniwo has been featured as a regular contributor on the Shay-Renae and Friends Radio Show, as a guest on The Tyra Banks Show and has been featured on many other tv shows, radio shows and in several national publications. Her upcoming vlog, The Sidepiece Matters!, will be seen on The Gold Digging Standard Channel on YouTube, delivering strong commentary on all SidePiece news.  

Follow Toniwo on Twitter @sidepiecehb, on Instagram @sidepiece_handbook and on Facebook at Facebook.com/TheSidePieceHandbook.  

And don’t forget about her websites, which are toniwo.com and sidepiecehandbook.com.  

This woman is awesome! Enjoy this lively episode where we openly dish about nasty two-timers!!  

 

 

Transitional Life Coach Randi Levin On Pivoting In Your Life and Creating Your Legacy

Transitional Life Coach and Reinvention Expert Randi Levin joins NOTHING OFF LIMITS this week to talk about pivoting in your life and creating your legacy.

Our discussion includes:

– ways to transform and redefine your life at any moment
– effectively dealing with change
– dealing with fears of failure or success
– practicing self-love and self-acceptance
– giving yourself credit for lessons learned or past mistakes
– letting go of what “should’ve” happened
– determining what’s next and making choices, and
– how to create (and recreate) your legacy

For more information about Randi and her services, please visit www.randilevincoaching.com

Also, be sure to check out her Reinvention Summit – 5 hours of valuable, inspiring content for just 79 bucks!

Ad mention:  NOL is now being distributed to CASTBOX.FM, which is available to any users, whether you’re iPhone, Android, desktop…whatever!  It’s fantastic because it’s very easy to use.  Backed by Google and a great team up in Palo Alto!

 

Jessica J On Dirty Talk!

Jessica J, a former therapist turned sex and dating coach and founder of Level Up Seduction, joins NOL to share tips for men on how to use dirty talk to really turn your woman on and keep her satisfied.

Some things we discuss:

1. How to get comfortable talking dirty
2. The importance of WHAT and WHEN you say something
3. The importance of HOW you say something
4. Why a woman might *not* be responding to you, whether it’s a new partner or a long-term relationship
5. Some ideas on things to say to get a woman in the mood

I love this episode! It’s fun, lively and we curse a lot! While it’s mostly for the guys out there, the ladies will benefit as well!

For more info on her coaching and group programs, please visit:
www.levelupseduction.com

This episode is brought to you by Cloixonné, the maker of Androzene, a supplement for men that may boost performance, increase blood flow and increase overall sexual satisfaction. Check it out at ladyfox.cloixonne.com

 

Dr. Rhoberta Shaler On Identifying and Dealing with Passive Aggressive People

Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor, returns to NOL to talk about Passive Aggressive people. She shares the 6 main ways to identify this type of difficult person via hallmark behaviors. Examples include giving you the silent treatment, playing the victim or procrastinating. These people are frustrating! You will learn the differences between passive aggressive people and full-blown Hijackals (Dr. Shaler’s trademarked term for what most people label Narcissists), and after listening to this episode, you will walk away with great tips on how to effectively deal with them at work or in a relationship.  Empowering!

For more information, please visit www.ForRelationshipHelp.com or Hijackals.com or PassiveAggressiveChecklist.com

Also, be sure to check out her radio show at https://bbsradio.com/relationshiphelpshow

Kathryn LaBarbera On Changing Your Relationship With Money

Small business consultant, sales trainer and life coach Kathryn LaBarbera joins the show this week to talk about money.  We discuss the emotional burden of money, why money is so tough for some people to discuss, how money affects our relationships, and how to change the energy around and our relationship with money.

Walk away with actionable tips!

If you’re interested in working with Kathryn either 1:1, as a couple or in a workshop, please connect with her on Facebook by searching on “Success By Design”.

Christine Baumgartner Shares Tips For Relationship Repair

Christine Baumgartner, dating and relationship expert, joins NOL for a second time to help you figure out if your relationship is worth repairing (and how to do it),  or if it’s time to move on.

Christine offers a free consultation for anyone seeking assistance with their relationship.  Visit her website at www.theperfectcatch.com

In this episode, we discuss:

  1.  The biggest mistakes people make when entering a new relationship
  2. Christine’s views on chemistry
  3. How to trust your instincts and identify red flags
  4. How to reduce doubt in a relationship
  5. How to ask for what you need without putting your partner on defense
  6. How to handle friends who do not support the relationship
  7. Whether or not it’s a good idea to take “time off” from the relationship while you’re having problems

…and much more!

Belle Star On How To Discover and Use Your Gifts

Belle Star, Master Life Coach, Aura Reader and Psychic, joins NOL this week to explain how she helps people find and use their unique gifts and to make a difference in the world by embracing their soul passions.

I met Belle at a conference several months ago, and I experienced having my aura read first hand.  It was a very eye-opening reading, and it gave me some useful tools to take away and apply in my life.  Belle explains further how knowing and understanding your aura can help you dance with life circumstances more effectively.

Some items we discuss:

Belle’s journey to becoming a life coach

How aura readings work and why they are an effective tool for her coaching

How to discern a “swan” from a “duck” and how this ties in with discovering your gifts

How to reconnect with your soul and your true passions through coaching with her

…and more.

Visit her website to get your coaching session today at bellestar.net

Attorney/Entrepreneur Ben Laski On Principles To Live By In Law and Life

For this week’s NOL guest, law and life are interconnected.  The way this man handles his business is how he also handles his personal life (note: with integrity).

Ben Laski is an attorney, businessman, and entrepreneur. His law practice focuses on entertainment, intellectual property, health & fitness, hospitality, media, music, television, technology, motion pictures, and startup matters. I am honored to be a client. On the business and consulting side, Ben focuses on developing business opportunities, consulting, and obtaining deals for various companies, including innovative startups through his business expertise and relationships with companies such as Sony, Universal, CAA, IMG, MTV, Fox, Live Nation, ABC, CBS, premier advertising agencies, talent agencies, and many others. As an entrepreneur, Ben invests in various companies at angel, seed, and A round phases. Ben is also a tenured professor at Boston University’s Los Angeles campus. Ben obtained a B.A., summa cum laude, in Political Science from University of California at Los Angeles (UCLA). He received his J.D. with Honors in Intellectual Property Concentration, from Boston University School of Law and his M.S., with honors, in Mass Communications from Boston University.

For more information, please visit laskilaw.com 

In this episode, we discuss:

Ben’s journey, including his years as a DJ and later a manager in the music business, which still finds its way into his life today.

Check out his current Spotify playlist, a nod to his early “mix tapes”: https://open.spotify.com/user/benlaski/playlist/5v7GVxi60AsUHo4JIdE4Ba

His project for Alice In Chains

His list of principles he follows in both law and life, including communication, transparency, cultivating patience and more.

His unique approach to creating contracts

Ben’s advice on applying the principles with clients and with your family

The importance of making lists

Making change actually happen – taking action and creating good habits

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